The S-T-A-R Process is the backbone of the Points and Tools and will help get you a long term view of parenting.
Use the Process to Find Ideas
Most of the situations you face you can handle on the fly.
Use the STAR process when you have a problem that is not improving, or one that really bothers you even if it is not serious.
Parenting is easier when you have a plan. The STAR Process gives you a strategy that works when you don't know what to do. Hover over the steps on the STAR below and see how the process works.